7 Things No One Tells You about Having a Threesome
For a lot of people having a threesome is like an achievement and something they love to brag about. In fact, many men and women fantasize about having threesomes as it adds spice to their sex life. But, what exactly is the reality behind this fantasy? This article would clear all, or at least most of your doubts about threesomes so that you can finally take a call on whether or not you should be doing it.
It’s nothing like it is depicted in porn: Real sex is very different from that shown in pornographic videos. There is absolutely no choreography and you’re left to choose what suits you best. If you’re about to have your first threesome, don’t have a lot of expectations from either partner and go with the flow.
It can get a little confusing: How are you planning to give equal attention to both the partners? Threesomes do get very confusing in case you’re not ready for it. You’d always be confused if you should put your legs up or roll over into doggy. Besides, what exactly would be your role as a third wheel? So many things that need to be pondered about, isn’t it?
Never hesitate to laugh: In case you’ve never experienced threesomes earlier, you’d experience several moments that would make to laugh out. In fact, it is also the easiest way to diffuse any kind of discomfort that you’re facing in the bedroom.
It isn’t about two people loving and adoring you: We’re all aware of the fact that sex isn’t one person’s job. Every participating individuals needs to make his/her presence felt. As stated earlier, it isn’t anywhere close t what you had seen in pornographic movies.
Keep attractions in mind: In case every person participating in the threesome is of the same sex, things wouldn’t get very complicated as everyone is attracted to each other. On the other hand, if you’re considering a threesome that involves people of different sexes, a lot of emphasis would go on those that are attracted to each other. In case of bisexual individuals, you’d have the best experience.
Always stay involved: It isn’t a good idea to pair off during threesome dating even though you like one person over another. Make sure every person is involved and is actively participating in the act. Sex isn’t something that you can watch as an audience. Make sure you’re doing something even if it is just rubbing their genitals while your mouth is busy doing something else.
It is unfortunate that most of us have absolutely no idea of threesomes and some those who do expect it to be something like similar to what is shown in porn. The aforementioned guidelines would give you a reality check.
